I'm in charge of planning family home evenings (FHE) for the mid-singles in two stakes. I've been doing it for just about two years now and I plan them by myself. Our FHE group is not that big and I think in my particular age group, FHE is not as important as it once was (like in YSA wards). I think people get their social fulfillment elsewhere and not necessarily at church activities anymore. I mean there are various reasons why people don't come and that's okay. But because of this, it makes it a challenge to think of activities that are interesting enough for people to actually want to come to.
I know different things appeal to different people and not everyone is going to like everything. Sometimes I have to think of FHE as just a reason for people to come together and socialize. So even if only one or two other people show up, that's okay. I can still call that FHE a success. (Although sometimes it is stressful not knowing who will be there, it always ends up totally fine, no matter how many or few people are there.) :)
Since I've had to think of a lot of activities, (a lot from the internet, some from other people and some just from myself) I decided I wanted to write down a list of things we've done for future reference. Some of these things we've done multiple times but most of them just once.
-Make ice cream in a bag
-Make dinner for someone in the ward who needed it
-Indexing
-Paper-making (Someone in my ward has the materials to make paper and was more than happy to show us and let us make some paper of our own)
-Frisbee at a nearby park
-Hike at Great Falls
-Make homemade pizza
-Show and Tell (have people bring a souvenir or a favorite or meaningful item from home and talk about it.)
-Play the game Celebrity
-Financial advise class (by a couple in the ward who both work in the finance industry)
-Make bagged lunches for a nearby homeless shelter (coordinating the day and drop off with the shelter beforehand)
-S'mores (over a campfire at family's home in the ward who have a fire pit)
-Halloween party (with Halloweeny food and playing a murder mystery game)
-Watch Father of the Bride
-Draw pictures of our days and then go around the table and talk about our pictures and our days
-Tie fleece blankets for Syrian refugees
-Address envelopes to send out flyers to mid-singles about upcoming activities
-Eat dinner at Three Thai Sushi
-White elephant gift exchange/ugly sweater Christmas party
-Caroling
-Meadowlark Gardens Winter Walk of Lights
-Watch Once I was a Beehive
-Play Two Truths and a Lie
-Play the chimes (someone in our ward has some chimes and was willing to show us how to play)
-Music appreciation night where we shared our favorite songs
-Disney trivia night
-Eat at Silver Diner
-Play human bingo
-Pi day with lots of pies and board games (March 14 or somewhere around there.)
-Sushi making lesson (another mid-single knows how to make sushi and was willing to show us how)
-Easter egg dying
-Thoughts about general conference and banana splits
-Play Nertz
-Bowling at AMF bowling alley in Centreville for $2 Tuesday nights
-A family history consultant in the ward teaching us about familysearch.org
-Dairy Queen
-Had the emergency preparedness specialists in the ward come and speak to us
-Birthday party for everyone with pizza, cake, balloons, games and a sing-a-long
-Gravelly point picnic and games with Potomac Ward
-A couple in the ward showed pictures and talked about their time living in China
-Mini-golf
-Mini-movie making
-Eat at Smash Burger
-Pool party at a couple's pool in the ward
-Frisbee/After frisbee talk about our favorite things to do in the East Coast
-YouTube video party (have people submit their favorite YouTube videos beforehand and then watch them at FHE)
-Letter press (a lady in our ward has a letter press and let us come and make some cards on the press)
-Election party playing an American trivia game
-Going shopping together for non-perishable food items for a Thanksgiving service project in our ward
-Hot chocolate bar
-See lights and nativities at the D.C. temple visitor's center at Christmas time
-Cookie making night (on Sunday night) and caroling (on Monday night. Bringing the cookies we made the night before) at Christmas time
-Board game night (Telestrations, Imagine If)
-Musical FHE (where people share one of their favorite songs and why they like it or they play a song on an instrument they know how to play.)
-Eat at Freddy's and then go to someone's house and watch Princess Bride
-Pancake party (had a pancake mix where you just add water and made pancakes on an electric griddle while we sat around chatting and then ate the pancakes with delicious toppings).
-Learn about Latter-day prophets (asked some people to look up a few facts about a modern prophet of their choice and then share them for the lesson.)
-International food night (have people bring international food to share)
-Volleyball at a local park
-Eat at Cafe Rio
-Eat at Bebop
We usually have awesome turn outs when we go to restaurants! :)
Sandi (and later Trevor) showed up to this FHE! It was a beautiful night and we threw the football around. :)
What are some other FHE activity ideas?
